Femme Fury

Breaking the Yolk

I’ve always known how to serve it: sunnyside up over—

easy, it isn’t like a diner

where answers are served like burnt grease on stale coffee.

It isn’t the simple balancing of trays, the careful cracking—

if the yoke breaks promise you won’t be disappointed,

I got another one coming up in twenty minutes—sorry for the wait.

It isn’t like waiting, for your food at a diner

cause you never wanted to get that phone call—your mother.

It’s the size of a plum—the size of a yolk.

They just need to pluck it, you just need to crack it without breaking.

It isn’t like cleaning up a mess for a party of twelve drunken teenagers—

remember how we used to build towers out of pancakes,

How we like to pretend we don’t do that anymore.

My mother pretends better than yours—

she thinks she can sweep it away like used napkins, pieces of egg and hashbrowns, milkshakes gone rancid.

But she only has one rag.

It’s not like a diner—there’s no sure order of what you need or what you’ll get

it’s never the same as the picture on the menu

its not chocolate chip pancakes and strawberry milkshakes.

It’s not like a diner—I don’t have a manager who you can talk to 

its just my number on the napkin—we’re open all night

if you want to talk over cups of stale coffee

and skim the filmy burned grease surface

or we can just watch how the neon signs reflect in our cups

and drink stale coffee to pretend its the reason we’re shaking.

abagond:

The list of children Obama has killed with drones and cruise missiles, about half of it, can be pieced together from news reports:
date: name, age, nationality
2009-01-23: Azaz-ur-Rehman, 14, Pakistani
2009-02-14: Noor Syed, 8, Pakistani
2009-08-11: Ibad Ullah, teenager, Pakistani
2009-08-11: Mohammad Arif, teenager, Pakistani
2009-08-11: Abdul Qadeer, teenager, Pakistani
2009-08-11: Hazrat Ali, teenager, Pakistani
2009-08-21: Syed Wali Shah, 7, Pakistani
2009-08-21: Naeemullah,?, Pakistani
2009-08-21: Faizullah,?, Pakistani
2009-08-21: Rahima,?, Pakistani
2009-08-21: Shaista,?, Pakistani
2009-11-20: Sakeenullah, 15, Pakistani
2009-12-31: Zaenullah Khan, 17, Pakistani
2009-12-17: Nasser Mohammed Nasser, 6, Yemeni
2009-12-17: Arwa Mohammed Nasser, 4, Yemeni
2009-12-17: Fatima Mohammed Nasser, 2, Yemeni
2009-12-17: Afrah Ali Mohammed Nasser, 9, Yemeni
2009-12-17: Zayda Ali Mohammed Nasser, 7, Yemeni
2009-12-17: Hoda Ali Mohammed Nasser, 5, Yemeni
2009-12-17: Sheikha Ali Mohammed Nasser, 4, Yemeni
2009-12-17: Asmaa Abdullah Mokbel Salem Louqye, 9, Yemeni
2009-12-17: Salma Abdullah Mokbel Salem Louqye, 4, Yemeni
2009-12-17: Fatima Abdullah Mokbel Salem Louqye, 3, Yemeni
2009-12-17: Khadije Ali Mokbel Louqye, 1, Yemeni
2009-12-17: Hanaa Ali Mokbel Louqye, 6, Yemeni
2009-12-17: Mohammed Ali Mokbel Salem Louqye, 4, Yemeni
2009-12-17: Jawass Mokbel Salem Louqye, 15, Yemeni
2009-12-17: Sheikha Nasser Mahdi Ahmad Bouh, 3, Yemeni
2009-12-17: Soumaya Mohammed Saleh Mohammed, 9, Yemeni
2009-12-17: Shafika Mohammed Saleh Mohammed, 4, Yemeni
2009-12-17: Shafiq Mohammed Saleh Mohammed, 2, Yemeni
2010-01-03: Wajid Noor, 9, Pakistani
2010-01-08: Ayeesha, 3, Pakistani
2010-02-24: Naila, 10, Pakistani
2010-05-21: Fatima, ?, Pakistani
2010-05-21: Nisar, ?, Pakistani
2010-05-21: Naeem Khan, ?, Pakistani
2010-10-18: Naeem Ullah, 10, Pakistani
2011-06-15: Shahzada, ?, Pakistani
2011-10-14: Abdel-Rahman Anwar al-Awlaki, 16, American
2011-10-14: Ahmed Abdel-Rahman al-Awlaki, 17, Yemeni
2011-10-31: Tariq Aziz, 16, Pakistani
2011-10-31: Waheed, ?, Pakistani
2012-08-21: Osama Haqqani, 13, Pakistani
2012-09-02: Mabrook Mouqbal Al Qadari, 13, Yemeni
2012-09-02: Daolah Nasser, 10, Yemeni
2012-09-02: AbedalGhani Mohammed Mabkhout, 12, Yemeni
(via Obama cries for white children | Abagond)

abagond:

The list of children Obama has killed with drones and cruise missiles, about half of it, can be pieced together from news reports:

  • date: name, age, nationality
  • 2009-01-23: Azaz-ur-Rehman, 14, Pakistani
  • 2009-02-14: Noor Syed, 8, Pakistani
  • 2009-08-11: Ibad Ullah, teenager, Pakistani
  • 2009-08-11: Mohammad Arif, teenager, Pakistani
  • 2009-08-11: Abdul Qadeer, teenager, Pakistani
  • 2009-08-11: Hazrat Ali, teenager, Pakistani
  • 2009-08-21: Syed Wali Shah, 7, Pakistani
  • 2009-08-21: Naeemullah,?, Pakistani
  • 2009-08-21: Faizullah,?, Pakistani
  • 2009-08-21: Rahima,?, Pakistani
  • 2009-08-21: Shaista,?, Pakistani
  • 2009-11-20: Sakeenullah, 15, Pakistani
  • 2009-12-31: Zaenullah Khan, 17, Pakistani
  • 2009-12-17: Nasser Mohammed Nasser, 6, Yemeni
  • 2009-12-17: Arwa Mohammed Nasser, 4, Yemeni
  • 2009-12-17: Fatima Mohammed Nasser, 2, Yemeni
  • 2009-12-17: Afrah Ali Mohammed Nasser, 9, Yemeni
  • 2009-12-17: Zayda Ali Mohammed Nasser, 7, Yemeni
  • 2009-12-17: Hoda Ali Mohammed Nasser, 5, Yemeni
  • 2009-12-17: Sheikha Ali Mohammed Nasser, 4, Yemeni
  • 2009-12-17: Asmaa Abdullah Mokbel Salem Louqye, 9, Yemeni
  • 2009-12-17: Salma Abdullah Mokbel Salem Louqye, 4, Yemeni
  • 2009-12-17: Fatima Abdullah Mokbel Salem Louqye, 3, Yemeni
  • 2009-12-17: Khadije Ali Mokbel Louqye, 1, Yemeni
  • 2009-12-17: Hanaa Ali Mokbel Louqye, 6, Yemeni
  • 2009-12-17: Mohammed Ali Mokbel Salem Louqye, 4, Yemeni
  • 2009-12-17: Jawass Mokbel Salem Louqye, 15, Yemeni
  • 2009-12-17: Sheikha Nasser Mahdi Ahmad Bouh, 3, Yemeni
  • 2009-12-17: Soumaya Mohammed Saleh Mohammed, 9, Yemeni
  • 2009-12-17: Shafika Mohammed Saleh Mohammed, 4, Yemeni
  • 2009-12-17: Shafiq Mohammed Saleh Mohammed, 2, Yemeni
  • 2010-01-03: Wajid Noor, 9, Pakistani
  • 2010-01-08: Ayeesha, 3, Pakistani
  • 2010-02-24: Naila, 10, Pakistani
  • 2010-05-21: Fatima, ?, Pakistani
  • 2010-05-21: Nisar, ?, Pakistani
  • 2010-05-21: Naeem Khan, ?, Pakistani
  • 2010-10-18: Naeem Ullah, 10, Pakistani
  • 2011-06-15: Shahzada, ?, Pakistani
  • 2011-10-14: Abdel-Rahman Anwar al-Awlaki, 16, American
  • 2011-10-14: Ahmed Abdel-Rahman al-Awlaki, 17, Yemeni
  • 2011-10-31: Tariq Aziz, 16, Pakistani
  • 2011-10-31: Waheed, ?, Pakistani
  • 2012-08-21: Osama Haqqani, 13, Pakistani
  • 2012-09-02: Mabrook Mouqbal Al Qadari, 13, Yemeni
  • 2012-09-02: Daolah Nasser, 10, Yemeni
  • 2012-09-02: AbedalGhani Mohammed Mabkhout, 12, Yemeni

(via Obama cries for white children | Abagond)

(via sluteverbabe)

Me: There’s this construction of genderqueer as a white androgynous identity, but there are many folks who claim genderqueer to reflect their non-normative identities who do not necessarily claim androgyny as part of their identity. For example, there are super femme-y genderqueer-identified people…

Professor: —Like Katy Perry in that music video where she has ice cream shooting out of her bra?

Me: I don’t really see Katy Perry as someone who is challenging normative gender roles.

Professor: Or Lady Gaga?

Me: Lady Gaga is super racist.

Ultimately, cynicism is the great mask of the disappointed and betrayed heart.

—Bell Hooks, All About Love: New Visions